I have always heard this quote growing up, and my father drilled it into our heads. While it might be good advice encouraging people to take on only what they have the money or ability to do, I think this quote is for those with the said “coat”. To put it clearly, this quote might be for the privileged.
I’ve been to some rural and suburban places in the past year and the standard of living in some of these places might move you to tears. The only thing that kept resonating through my mind was if these people had dreams, aspirations and things they wanted to achieve.
For such people, their problem was just finding what to eat at that particular moment. I frequently found myself comparing their plight to mine. I am not extravagantly rich but I am rich enough to have whatever I need in a matter of hours, maybe days. Sometimes my issue is choosing between the two long-lasting perfumes while for many out there, they don’t even have a roof over their heads.
I thought of the one time I threw a birthday party and regretted the amount I spent but soon got over it because more money came in. I compared this situation to someone who is probably just wondering what they can have for dinner.
Truly, a lot of people are living in poverty and do not have the means to cater even for their daily needs and talk more of their wants or dreams.
I started to understand that I don’t need to impress anyone with my lifestyle. Instead, I should focus on what I am genuinely capable of doing and contributing. This has taught me gratitude for what I have and the importance of giving back to those who are less fortunate.
Visiting these places made me appreciate the position I am currently in while cautioning myself to cut my coat according to my size. I used to think I could get whatever I wanted, even if it was by borrowing but my view of life changed after my experience in these places. I should only commit to what I am capable of doing. All this is because my current standard of living is someone else’s dream.
While the saying “cut your coat according to your size” may resonate with many people, unfortunately it doesn’t apply to some. Some of us feel the pressure to be acknowledged based on appearances or material possessions, but in the end, there’s no need to please anyone at the expense of our well-being.
I appreciate the things destiny has brought my way and in turn, I give to those who may not have it easy in life. Life has brought me many blessings, and I want to share them with others who may be struggling. But first of all, I must recognise my privileges and be mindful of those who are less opportune.
Remember that many do not have a coat to start with. Help that person today!
